well, i did get the vanity cleared off and prettified...and then i watched a movie. really a documentary. about the Pugaches? The guy who threw lye in the woman's face and blinded her back in the late 50s, and like 20 years later when he got out of prison, they got married. crazy story. but i look at them - psycho lye thrower ex-con and blind desperate woman...and I think...THEY each found someone?? SIGH.